Transformational Coaching with Adam
Transformation through Presence
Welcome!
If you've found your way here, you're likely looking for support with something that really matters to you.
This page is an invitation to explore whether we might work well together. I believe finding the right coach is about connection, trust, and shared understanding.
Are You Looking For Change?
You might be here because:
- You're yearning for deeper, more authentic relationships
- Important words stay stuck inside you, unspoken
- You find yourself constantly putting others' needs first
- Your relationships feel unsatisfying but you can't quite say why
- Setting and holding boundaries feels impossibly hard
- You sense there's more to express, but something holds you back
What to Expect When Working With Me
In our sessions, you'll find a space where we work with whatever's present. We'll meet exactly where you are - whether that's in the depths of challenging emotions or moments of unexpected lightness.
Breakthroughs can come in many forms: sometimes through sitting with difficult truths, other times through surprising moments of self-reflection and even laughter. Wherever you are I'll meet you with warmth while offering honest, clear reflections.
How I Work
I believe that lasting change emerges naturally when we create the right conditions for it. In our work together, I offer a space where everything is welcome - from your deepest struggles to your unexpected laughter. You'll find me both deeply present and refreshingly human.
In our sessions, I bring:
- Deep listening that helps reveal what's beneath the surface
- Straight-talking compassion - gentle but not sugar-coating
- A willingness to meet both the light and shadow
- Genuine curiosity about your unique experience
- Trust in your innate capacity for growth and change
Sometimes transformation comes through tears, sometimes through belly laughs, often through both. What matters is that we create a space where you can be fully yourself - messy, magnificent, and everything in between.
I've spent 20 years learning and practicing in the world of personal development, but what matters most is that I understand struggle and transformation. I've known the fear that change is impossible. I've sat with grief, felt completely stuck, and questioned whether things could ever be different.
It's this intimate knowledge of both struggle and possibility that informs how I work with you.
What I'm really good at
Through years of working with clients, I've discovered that I can be particularly helpful with two core challenges:
Authentic Communication
When communication feels stuck or unsatisfying, we'll explore what's really wanting to be expressed.
Often, this process of discovery itself creates profound states of emergence as new possibilities arise.
When you choose to share these insights with others, I'll support you in finding your own way to communicate with clarity and impact, staying true to yourself without blame or malice.
Boundaries & Desires
In a world that often shames our needs and desires, it's easy to lose touch with ourselves.
Together, we'll walk a gentle path of rediscovery - learning to notice and trust your body's wisdom.
As your sense of personal sovereignty grows, you'll discover how to honor your boundaries and desires while maintaining genuine connections with those who matter to you.
My Journey
Growing up as an outsider sparked a lifelong fascination with genuine human connection. This wasn't just an academic interest - it became my path, my practice, and ultimately my work.
Along the way, I've created spaces for authentic connection in unexpected ways: founding a silent speed dating company, creating festivals dedicated to human connection, and curating transformative experiences at major festivals. Each project taught me something new about what it means to truly meet each other.
But the deepest learning came from my own journey. I've lived through the struggles I now support others with - people pleasing, inauthentic communication, broken relationships. I discovered that studying connection wasn't enough; I had to live it, stumble through it, and find my own way back to truth.
I've been fortunate to learn from extraordinary teachers along the way. My training includes counseling with the Path of Love founders, studying the Wheel of Consent directly with Betty Martin, and deep immersion in the practice of Circling. Each of these modalities has shaped how I show up and work with others.
Recently, becoming a father has opened new dimensions in my understanding of connection, boundaries, and presence. It's reminded me that we're always growing, always learning.
I bring all of this - the professional training, personal experience, and continuous learning - to our work together. I'm here to meet whatever arises - light and shadow - as we explore what's true for you and watch how that truth helps everything flourish.
What It's Like to Work Together
Each session is unique because you're unique. Sometimes we'll work directly with a specific challenge you're facing, other times we'll explore more deeply into patterns and possibilities. What stays constant is my commitment to meeting you wherever you are, with curiosity and care.
"Adam created a space where I could finally be honest with myself. His way of listening and reflecting back helped me see patterns I'd never noticed before."
Sarah K.
Is This Right For You?
This work tends to be most powerful for people who:
- Are ready to commit to their own growth and transformation
- Feel genuinely ready for lasting change in their life
- Are curious about discovering new aspects of themselves
- Value weekly sessions to maintain momentum and depth
- Prefer exploration and emergence over being told what to "fix"
- Are eager for change and willing to engage fully in the process
I've found that meeting weekly, especially in the beginning, creates the continuity and safety needed for real transformation to unfold. I'm here as a committed partner in your journey of discovery and growth.
Practical Details
Connect with me from anywhere in the world through online sessions, or if you're in London, experience our work together in my peaceful rooftop dome.
Our conversations create space for deep exploration of relationships, communication, and personal growth.
60-minute single session: £85
Weekly sessions: £75
Ready to Take the Next Step?
Other Ways to Experience My Work:
- Join my weekly Circling sessions in London
- Explore upcoming retreats and workshops
- Contact me to talk
