Transformational Coaching with Adam
Transformation through Presence
Welcome!
If you've found your way here, you're likely looking for support with something that really matters to you.
This page is an invitation to explore whether we might work well together. I believe finding the right coach is about connection, trust, and shared understanding. If you're curious to learn more, read on.
What to Expect When Working With Me
In our sessions, you'll find a space where we work with whatever's present. We'll meet exactly where you are - whether that's in the depths of challenging emotions or moments of unexpected lightness.
Breakthroughs can come in many forms: sometimes through sitting with difficult truths, other times through surprising moments of self-reflection and even laughter. Wherever you are I'll meet you with warmth while offering honest, clear reflections.
Why People Seek Me Out
People often find their way to me when they're:
- Yearning for deeper, more authentic relationships
- Finding it hard to say what they really want to say to others
- Consistently putting everyone else's needs before their own
- Holding back from expressing what really matters to them
- Feeling unsatisfied in their relationships but unsure why
- Having a hard timeĀ with setting and maintaining boundaries
How I Work
I believe that lasting change emerges naturally when we create the right conditions for it. In our work together, I offer a space where everything is welcome - from your deepest struggles to your unexpected laughter. You'll find me both deeply present and refreshingly human.
In our sessions, I bring:
- Deep listening that helps reveal what's beneath the surface
- Straight-talking compassion - gentle but not sugar-coating
- A willingness to meet both the light and shadow
- Genuine curiosity about your unique experience
- Trust in your innate capacity for growth and change
Sometimes transformation comes through tears, sometimes through belly laughs, often through both. What matters is that we create a space where you can be fully yourself - messy, magnificent, and everything in between.
I've spent 20 years learning and practicing in the world of personal development, but what matters most is that I understand struggle and transformation. I've known the fear that change is impossible. I've sat with grief, felt completely stuck, and questioned whether things could ever be different.
It's this intimate knowledge of both struggle and possibility that informs how I work withĀ you.
What I'm really good at
Through years of working with clients, I've discovered that I can be particularly helpful with two core challenges:
Authentic Communication
When communication feels stuck or unsatisfying, we'll explore what's really wanting to be expressed.
Often, this process of discovery itself creates profound states of emergence as new possibilities arise.
When you choose to share these insights with others, I'll support you in finding your own way to communicate with clarity and impact, staying true to yourself without blame or malice.
Boundaries & Desires
In a world that often shames our needs and desires, it's easy to lose touch with ourselves.
Together, we'll walk a gentle path of rediscovery - learning to notice and trust your body's wisdom.
As your sense of personal sovereignty grows, you'll discover how to honor your boundaries and desires while maintaining genuine connections with those who matter to you.
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My Journey
Growing up as an outsider sparked a lifelong fascination with genuine human connection. This wasn't just an academic interest - it became my path, my practice, and ultimately my work.
Along the way, I've created spaces for authentic connection in unexpected ways: founding a silent speed dating company, creating festivals dedicated to human connection, and curating transformative experiences at major festivals. Each project taught me something new about what it means to truly meet each other.
But the deepest learning came from my own journey. I've lived through the struggles I now support others with - people pleasing, inauthentic communication, broken relationships. I discovered that studying connection wasn't enough; I had to live it, stumble through it, and find my own way back to truth.
I've been fortunate to learn from extraordinary teachers along the way. My training includes counseling with the Path of Love founders, studying the Wheel of Consent directly with Betty Martin, and deep immersion in the practice of Circling. Each of these modalities has shaped how I show up and work with others.
Recently, becoming a father has opened new dimensions in my understanding of connection, boundaries, and presence. It's reminded me that we're always growing, always learning.
I bring all of this - the professional training, personal experience, and continuous learning - to our work together. I'm here to meet whatever arises - light and shadow - as we explore what's true for you and watch how that truth helps everything flourish.
What It's Like to Work Together
Each session is unique because you're unique. Sometimes we'll work directly with a specific challenge you're facing, other times we'll explore more deeply into patterns and possibilities. What stays constant is my commitment to meeting you wherever you are, with curiosity and care.
"Adam created a space where I could finally be honest with myself. His way of listening and reflecting back helped me see patterns I'd never noticed before."Ā
Sarah K.
Is This Right For You?
This work tends to be most powerful for people who:
- Are ready to commit to their own growth and transformation
- Feel genuinely ready for lasting change in their life
- Are curious about discovering new aspects of themselves
- Value weekly sessions to maintain momentum and depth
- Prefer exploration and emergence over being told what to "fix"
- Are eager for change and willing to engage fully in the process
I've found that meeting weekly, especially in the beginning, creates the continuity and safety needed for real transformation to unfold. I'm here as a committed partner in your journey of discovery and growth.
Practical Details
I work primarily online, offering sessions worldwide via video call.
For those in London, I occasionally offer in-person sessions in my rooftop dome - a unique and peaceful space for our work together.
Sessions are 50 minutes, starting at Ā£70 per session.
Ready to Take the Next Step?
Book a free 30-minute conversation to meet each other and explore how coaching might support you.
Book a call nowOther Ways to Experience My Work:
- Join my weekly Circling sessions in London
- Explore upcoming retreats and workshops
