Tell Me What You Want,
What You Really, Really Want…
 – The Spice Girls
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Reconnect with your authentic desires to build genuine confidence, true autonomy, and real connection.
Discover What You Really Want - Start TodayIs This You?
Do you ever find yourself quietly letting others take the lead, agreeing to plans, opinions, and choices that don’t really feel right to you? Maybe it’s easier just to go along—keeping the peace, holding back what you truly feel. Over time, that small act of silence has turned into a habit, where your wants get lost in the background.
Does This Sound Familiar?
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You agree to things that drain you, thinking it’s better to keep things smooth than to speak up.
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You let others decide, convincing yourself it doesn’t matter, but end up feeling distant, unseen, as though something vital is missing.
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You move through your days capably enough—everything looks good on paper—but that raw, alive feeling of knowing what you truly want feels like a distant memory.
It’s a familiar cycle: always allowing others to go first, always compromising, until you’ve almost forgotten what you actually want. If you see yourself in these words, maybe it’s time to reconnect with that voice inside that knows what you need, the voice that’s been waiting for a space to finally be heard.
Introducing the Course
What You Really, Really Want
The 'What You Really Really Want' course is designed to help you reconnect with your desires and rebuild that lost connection with yourself. This is a journey that goes beyond surface-level changes; it’s about building the confidence to express what truly matters to you and creating a life where your choices reflect your heart.
What You’ll Cultivate in This Journey:
Noticing What You Want
Begin by gently tuning into the signals of your desires, recognising small moments that bring a sense of aliveness and grounding.
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Reawakening the Senses
Through somatic practices, reconnect with your body’s innate wisdom, awakening the sensations and joy that guide you to what truly fulfils you.
Creating Space for Your Needs
Build boundaries and learn to listen to your inner rhythm, creating room for your needs and desires while embracing each step of your unique process.
Connecting Authentically
Gain the tools to communicate your wants clearly and honestly, fostering deeper, more meaningful connections in all areas of your life.
This course creates a sanctuary for your wanting—a space where you'll discover how to listen to, honour, and act on your deepest desires with clarity and conviction.
THIS IS YOUR OPPORTUNITY.
What You’ll Explore in the Course
MODULE 01
The Whispers of Wanting
Reconnect with the quiet voice of your desires, understanding why they’re often buried and how to gently bring them forward.
MODULE 02
Re-awakening the Senses
Rediscover the power of tuning into your body’s sensations to guide you toward joy and awaken your natural sense of what feels good.
MODULE 03
Tuning Into
Pleasure
Dive into how your body communicates your needs, recognising the signals that show when you’re on the path to fulfilment.
MODULE 04
Trusting Your Inner Knowing
Strengthen trust in your inner guidance, learning to make decisions from a place of clarity and alignment.
MODULE 05
Freerange
Wanting
Embrace the freedom of desiring without judgement, allowing yourself to acknowledge what you truly want.
MODULE 06
Want vs.Â
Willing
Discover the difference between what you want and what you’re willing to pursue, setting boundaries with confidence.
MODULE 07
Integration and Moving Forward
Bring it all together with practical tools and applications to carry your desires into everyday choices.
Every step you take in this journey brings you closer to a life that feels like it’s truly yours—rooted in what you value, alive with your choices.
Ready to explore these steps? Enrol today and start your journey
What Others Have Experienced
BE INSPIRED
"It was both mind-blowing and moving to see how good I had become at suppressing my own wants and desires - even the simplest everyday ones.
Simply asking for what I want through open, clear and respectful communication is utterly transformative."
 - Alex B, Lawyer
"I 100% recommend this workshop to others, it has revolutionised my world.
One of my major discoveries is how boundaries and desires relate to my life more broadly.
At work, I’ve started noticing when I 'tolerate' things rather than expressing my true wants/needs."
- Lisa W, Educator
Enrolment & Pricing
The 'What You Really Really Want' course offers a practical, self-paced journey to help you reconnect with your desires and express them confidently. For £60, you’ll gain lifetime access to seven transformative modules, each guiding you through noticing, understanding, and honouring your true wants—all at a pace that suits you.
Meet Your Instructor Adam Taffler
Like many of us, I spent years as a people-pleaser, morphing myself to fit others' expectations until I barely recognised my own wants and needs. That journey—from losing myself to finding my authentic voice—led me to create Togetherness, where I've spent the last decade helping others navigate their own path through boundaries and desires.
Through hundreds of workshops and one-to-one sessions, I've discovered what works. I've poured all these insights, tools, and gentle practices into this course to make your journey easier than mine was.
As your guide, I bring both professional expertise and personal understanding—because I know exactly how it feels to start reclaiming your voice, one small brave step at a time.
Enrol today and start your journey